My Story – About Stefan
“It is my soul’s mission to open my heart and expand my ability to love
and my passion to help others do so as well.” ~ Stefan
My Healing Journey
My own healing journey to find love began with a day of despair. I was 27 and was starting to notice that my last several girlfriends had a certain negative trait in common, even though they were all very different in other ways. Then one day it hit me… the realization that not only had I been consistently dating women with that negative trait, but I was also terrified of being with the kind of woman that I was most interested in!
That was when despair set in. Since I was terrified of being with the right partner for me, and I was fatally attracted to the wrong kind of women, I was afraid that I would never be able to have a successful love relationship. I decided that this was not an acceptable outcome to my life! I then entered therapy and started my own healing journey to find love.
I know what it’s like to spend years trying to find true love. I know the frustration, loneliness and even despair of that search. It took me many years to work through my blocks to finding love using traditional therapy.
Now, with the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT Tapping Therapy), I can help you clear your internal barriers to love in weeks to months instead of years. You have no idea how much I wish that I had had EFT when I started my own healing journey!
EFT Love Coach
I am a certified AAMET Level 3 EFT Advanced Practitioner and Trainer. I have been helping individuals and couples with their deep emotional healing and relationship issues for 17 years and have specialized in using the Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) for 9 years. In addition to “standard EFT,” I now use a powerful combination of Inner Child Healing and EFT called Matrix Reimprinting and well as an amazing, spiritually-oriented technique called Ask and Receive.
I’ve always had an intuitive gift (supported by extensive training) to quickly get to the heart of the matter and discover the root cause of my clients’ problems.
I often get comments like:
“I’ve seen four counselors before you, but you were the first one that helped me discover the source of my problem.”
All EFT practitioners know how to do the tapping process. However, knowing specifically what to tap on can make all of the difference. My current success rate is over 98%.
“Stefan makes it easy to do EFT because he is incredibly intuitive and supportive. Even the deepest and most painful memories fade away or even appear funny after a session. I notice major changes after every session, and just after a few sessions I have developed a new calmness and self awareness that I don’t ever remember having in my life.” — Client Testimonial
My Training
I have seven years of training in the following emotional healing techniques: EFT Tapping Therapy, Matrix Reimprinting, Ask and Receive, Tapas Acupressure Technique (TAT), Gestalt Therapy, Transactional Analysis, couples counseling, group therapy (Relational Model), EMDR, the Core Transformation Process, Inner Child Healing, Focusing, Guided Imagery and Spiritual Approaches, and other body-oriented therapies.
My body-oriented Gestalt Therapy training has given me a particularly good background for helping clients get more clearly in touch with their issues and discover the root of their problems. It is a wonderfully supportive complement to the healing power of EFT and Matrix Reimprinting.
My Healing Philosophy
One of the keys to healing is being gentle and compassionate with the hurting parts of ourselves. We may be uncomfortable with (and even hate) certain parts of ourselves, but these are just parts of us whose needs were never met growing up. By being compassionate with these parts, we can find out what they need and heal them. This is at the root of healing the dysfunctional behavior in our lives. From an appreciative, self-loving place we can work with instead of against ourselves to find much more satisfying solutions in our lives.
One-on-One EFT Coaching
You can also read about the option of doing one-on-one EFT coaching to clear your barriers to finding love in the shortest time possible.
Contact Stefan
Complimentary 20 Minute Consultation
Let’s have a chat to see how EFT can help you break free from your barriers and have the love you’ve always wanted. Contact me at (800) 770-9488 or Skype ID: stefancgonick or stefan@findingtheloveyouwant.com to arrange your consultation.
